Lots of times people make light of accepting the title of Godparent to a loved one's child, however Godparent can and may be a serious and important role in a child's life and your own.
== Steps ==
#1. Think About It.
When ask to be a Godparent, you may want to seriously take a step back and examine this concept from all angles. Although you may be honored to be considered for such a role, you may want to make sure you are indeed ready to take this journey with your loved and there little one.
#2 Don't Be Afraid to Ask Questions.
You may want to have a serious talk with the parent(s) and ask them what being a Godparent means to them. It is important that you know their expectations of in order to avoid disappointments or misunderstandings. This will also let you be able to gather your thoughts and efficiently decided if God parenting is something that you are ready for or willing to do.
#3 Be Honest.
No matter what, let mom/dad know how you are feeling. If you don't feel like you are ready, or you may not be the best qualified for the "job" let them know that. In turn they may be able to tell you some things about yourself that will make you feel better taking on a Godchild.
#4 Show Your Appreciation
No matter what decision you come to, being regarded so highly is definitely an honor and this is something that you should relay to the parents whether you accept their request or not. Let them know that you love them and the baby with all your heart. If you decide to accept, pledge to them that you will be there for them no matter what and you will love that child like your own.
== Tips ==
*Take your role in the babies SERIOUSLY. Being a Godparent should be a big deal, if its not so big to you, please by all means, decline the offer.
*If dealing with a single parent situation, note that you may be the parents first line of defense if a sitter is needed or the parent needs someone to talk to, etc.
*If your do not have children yet, be sure and spend plenty of time with the child and there parents and pay close attention to the babies wants and needs, get to know the baby and actually feel like a parent. Make sure this babies is as close to you as you will be to them.
*Keep the lines of communication open, if you're scared, or there is something that you don't know, ask mom and/or dad, they will be so happy to see your interest in the baby and your role as Godparent!
== Things You'll Need ==
*Patience
*An Open Mind
*Communication
*Honesty
*Time
*A Big Heart
== Steps ==
#1. Think About It.
When ask to be a Godparent, you may want to seriously take a step back and examine this concept from all angles. Although you may be honored to be considered for such a role, you may want to make sure you are indeed ready to take this journey with your loved and there little one.
#2 Don't Be Afraid to Ask Questions.
You may want to have a serious talk with the parent(s) and ask them what being a Godparent means to them. It is important that you know their expectations of in order to avoid disappointments or misunderstandings. This will also let you be able to gather your thoughts and efficiently decided if God parenting is something that you are ready for or willing to do.
#3 Be Honest.
No matter what, let mom/dad know how you are feeling. If you don't feel like you are ready, or you may not be the best qualified for the "job" let them know that. In turn they may be able to tell you some things about yourself that will make you feel better taking on a Godchild.
#4 Show Your Appreciation
No matter what decision you come to, being regarded so highly is definitely an honor and this is something that you should relay to the parents whether you accept their request or not. Let them know that you love them and the baby with all your heart. If you decide to accept, pledge to them that you will be there for them no matter what and you will love that child like your own.
== Tips ==
*Take your role in the babies SERIOUSLY. Being a Godparent should be a big deal, if its not so big to you, please by all means, decline the offer.
*If dealing with a single parent situation, note that you may be the parents first line of defense if a sitter is needed or the parent needs someone to talk to, etc.
*If your do not have children yet, be sure and spend plenty of time with the child and there parents and pay close attention to the babies wants and needs, get to know the baby and actually feel like a parent. Make sure this babies is as close to you as you will be to them.
*Keep the lines of communication open, if you're scared, or there is something that you don't know, ask mom and/or dad, they will be so happy to see your interest in the baby and your role as Godparent!
== Things You'll Need ==
*Patience
*An Open Mind
*Communication
*Honesty
*Time
*A Big Heart
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